Some people can be so selfish. They always think of themselves and not how they affect or are treated by others. They can have something as close to perfect as they can find yet still they can find something wrong.
Life is not perfect. Things will not always go the way we want them to. Sometimes we have to think before we complain. Just because something little goes wrong, that doesn't give you the right to complain about it. Put things into perspective. Think of what is bothering you. Is it worth complaining about? Is it realyl an issue? Do you do the same thing but don't realize it?
We tend to expect our partners to be perfect and mindreaders. Are we so perfect that we can demand that from our partner? I don't think so. wise up or you might lose the best thing in your life!
I said this to myself when I looked into the mirror today.
Sorry.
Friday, February 29, 2008
Saying what you mean
I was talking to an old friend the other day and she told me that she and her bf had broken up. I asked what happened and she told me they had an argument and at the end he asked her if she still wants to be his gf.
I asked what she said and this is what she said "I told him no thinking that he would try to convince me to stay with him."
WHAT???????????????? Was she CRAZY???? Why on earth would anyone do something so stupid? It's like that song by The 4 seasons "big girls don't cry". It backfired in the song and it backfired on her. Now she is in a mess because the guy she loves thinks she is just playing with him.
People should just say what they feel, not say things to get a reaction if they don't believe what they are saying. This would stop a lot of problems.
I asked what she said and this is what she said "I told him no thinking that he would try to convince me to stay with him."
WHAT???????????????? Was she CRAZY???? Why on earth would anyone do something so stupid? It's like that song by The 4 seasons "big girls don't cry". It backfired in the song and it backfired on her. Now she is in a mess because the guy she loves thinks she is just playing with him.
People should just say what they feel, not say things to get a reaction if they don't believe what they are saying. This would stop a lot of problems.
Monday, February 18, 2008
Bad Feelings II
Well, I knew it. Something bad has happened.
I really hate when this happens.
To my baby, I love you Arleah. I miss you so much hon.
I really hate when this happens.
To my baby, I love you Arleah. I miss you so much hon.
Sunday, February 17, 2008
Bad Feelings
Did you ever have one of those days when you just know you are going to hear bad news or something bad is going to happen? Today is one of those days. I don't know what causes it but it usually is justified. I hope it isn't too bad.
I don't know what is worse though, finally getting the bad news or the waiting beforehand.
Oh well, bring it on!!!!! Let's get this over with.
Better days are ahead.
I don't know what is worse though, finally getting the bad news or the waiting beforehand.
Oh well, bring it on!!!!! Let's get this over with.
Better days are ahead.
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
The New Year
Well, it's the beginning of a new year and at this time I usually reflect back on the past year and look forward to the new one. I like to look back and see what mistakes I have made and how I could have prevented them. I think about the good things that have happened and the not-so-good things. I also try to plan what I want to accomplish this year and how to go about doing it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. It seems that when I rely on myself only, I can accomplish more than if I rely on help from anyone.
Here is what I came up with.
Well, first the bad things. I went from working days back to nights again. The pay is better but I really hate working nights. It's hard to get a good sleep and everyone thinks you have all day to do things for them. After I clear up a big personal issue, I will try to transfer to days.
Another bad thing, my mother had a heart attack. She is doing better now but it was really scary. This isn't her first one and I was worried that it might be bad. I had to cancel my vacation but that is really secondary because it is my mom and her health. I was so happy with the way Arleah handled it. She was kind, understanding and just so sweet. I don't think she has a selfish bone in her body. That's just one of the many reasons I love her so much.
A third bad thing? Well, I was in a car accident. I totaled my car and injured my back. I have healed completely and I have a different car now.
Now for the good things.
I was able to meet the most wonderful woman in the world last year. She is just amazing. We really hit it off when we first met. I am sure you have read all the things I have said about her. hahaha. I think I sound obsessed! At first I was a bit worried that it was just infatuation. She is sexy and so pretty so was I just letting that interfere with how she was as a person? Well, there is no doubt just how wonderful a person she is. She treats me with respect, dignity and makes me feel like I can accomplish anything with her by my side. If I were to write about her only, I could fill this blog, and the next one, and the next one, and the next one and....hehehe.
another good thing, well, I was able to pay down a LOT of my debt. It has been weighing on my mind a lot so it was nice to see where I was January of last year and where I am now. I should have that problem solved by year end or earlier. That is exciting.
My kids are with me. I love my kids. Every night when they kiss me goodnight or wave goodbye when I take them to school I feel so good. If that wasn't good enough, my oldest was accepted into one of the top 3 universities in America. I'm so proud of him.
Did I mention that I met the most wonderful woman in the world? Hmmmm, I guess I did. hahaha.
Things are becoming clearer for me and my future. I know what I want and I think I know how to get it. I don't need miracles to get there, just not so many roadblocks. January has started off well and I have a good feeling about this year. Many changes in store and I believe, in this case, change is good.
Here is what I came up with.
Well, first the bad things. I went from working days back to nights again. The pay is better but I really hate working nights. It's hard to get a good sleep and everyone thinks you have all day to do things for them. After I clear up a big personal issue, I will try to transfer to days.
Another bad thing, my mother had a heart attack. She is doing better now but it was really scary. This isn't her first one and I was worried that it might be bad. I had to cancel my vacation but that is really secondary because it is my mom and her health. I was so happy with the way Arleah handled it. She was kind, understanding and just so sweet. I don't think she has a selfish bone in her body. That's just one of the many reasons I love her so much.
A third bad thing? Well, I was in a car accident. I totaled my car and injured my back. I have healed completely and I have a different car now.
Now for the good things.
I was able to meet the most wonderful woman in the world last year. She is just amazing. We really hit it off when we first met. I am sure you have read all the things I have said about her. hahaha. I think I sound obsessed! At first I was a bit worried that it was just infatuation. She is sexy and so pretty so was I just letting that interfere with how she was as a person? Well, there is no doubt just how wonderful a person she is. She treats me with respect, dignity and makes me feel like I can accomplish anything with her by my side. If I were to write about her only, I could fill this blog, and the next one, and the next one, and the next one and....hehehe.
another good thing, well, I was able to pay down a LOT of my debt. It has been weighing on my mind a lot so it was nice to see where I was January of last year and where I am now. I should have that problem solved by year end or earlier. That is exciting.
My kids are with me. I love my kids. Every night when they kiss me goodnight or wave goodbye when I take them to school I feel so good. If that wasn't good enough, my oldest was accepted into one of the top 3 universities in America. I'm so proud of him.
Did I mention that I met the most wonderful woman in the world? Hmmmm, I guess I did. hahaha.
Things are becoming clearer for me and my future. I know what I want and I think I know how to get it. I don't need miracles to get there, just not so many roadblocks. January has started off well and I have a good feeling about this year. Many changes in store and I believe, in this case, change is good.
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Soul Mates
I always used to think that the term "Soul Mate" was being used by people that were just in love and feeling goofy. It's like calling someone "schnookums" or "babycakes" or any other term. I never thought there was really a soul mate. That was until February.
In February, I first met Arleah in person. We really hit it off. We had been chatting for a while and we became close and we seemed to get along fine after a period of just the opposite. Anyone can chat and get along with someone. That doesn't really show that you are compatible, it just shows that you can talk about things. When we met though, everything seemed to go great. We had good conversation and we really enjoyed each other's company. At that time, I thought there was a great chance that her and I would become a good couple with a really strong relationship.
Since then, we continued to chat and really got to know each other well. She got to know the real me and I got to know the real Arleah. Our feelings grew stronger every time we chatted. At first I was worried that it was only me that was feeling this way. I learned that it was mutual!
We were able to get together again in October. Well, it was just amazing. Everything we did just seemed like the right thing to do no matter what it was. We could have been eating, walking, swimming, talking, or even just sitting together and it seemed like there was nothing else I would rather be doing.
I was able to meet 2 aunts, 2 brothers, a sister-in-law, a nephew and 3 nieces. I never felt so comfortable meeting family before. Arleah didn't feel the need to watch over me as if to protect me from anything I might say wrong. She had a confidence about me that she was not afraid to let me be me in front of her family. I was also able to meet one of her friends for dinner. It was ease to talk to him since he talked British (hahaha).
All in all I had a wonderful visit spending time with her and meeting her friends and family. I hope next time I can meet more friends that I have heard of like Beng and Sara and some others she has mentioned. I also can't wait to meet her mother. She seems so nice on the phone and is really a pleasure to talk to.
Well, after this visit I really had to rethink my opinion of soul mates. I think I found mine.
I love you hon.
In February, I first met Arleah in person. We really hit it off. We had been chatting for a while and we became close and we seemed to get along fine after a period of just the opposite. Anyone can chat and get along with someone. That doesn't really show that you are compatible, it just shows that you can talk about things. When we met though, everything seemed to go great. We had good conversation and we really enjoyed each other's company. At that time, I thought there was a great chance that her and I would become a good couple with a really strong relationship.
Since then, we continued to chat and really got to know each other well. She got to know the real me and I got to know the real Arleah. Our feelings grew stronger every time we chatted. At first I was worried that it was only me that was feeling this way. I learned that it was mutual!
We were able to get together again in October. Well, it was just amazing. Everything we did just seemed like the right thing to do no matter what it was. We could have been eating, walking, swimming, talking, or even just sitting together and it seemed like there was nothing else I would rather be doing.
I was able to meet 2 aunts, 2 brothers, a sister-in-law, a nephew and 3 nieces. I never felt so comfortable meeting family before. Arleah didn't feel the need to watch over me as if to protect me from anything I might say wrong. She had a confidence about me that she was not afraid to let me be me in front of her family. I was also able to meet one of her friends for dinner. It was ease to talk to him since he talked British (hahaha).
All in all I had a wonderful visit spending time with her and meeting her friends and family. I hope next time I can meet more friends that I have heard of like Beng and Sara and some others she has mentioned. I also can't wait to meet her mother. She seems so nice on the phone and is really a pleasure to talk to.
Well, after this visit I really had to rethink my opinion of soul mates. I think I found mine.
I love you hon.
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Boracay
Last month I went to Boracay with my girlfriend Arleah. It was amazing.
We stayed in station 1. The beach was beautiful. The white sand and crystal clear water was breathtaking. The weather was perfect. It seems as if God wanted everything to be the way it should.
The hotel/resort was very nice. There was a great pool and it was also right on the beach. The room was spacious and clean. The name of the place is Las Brisas. I highly recommend it to anyone that is going to Boracay. The staff was nice and the breakfast was tasty. I think it helped that we were the only ones there for one night.
When we went to the beach the sand was beautiful. I have never been on a white sand beach before. The sand was cool even though it was quite warm out. The water was warm when we first went in. It was so clear too. We were able to go out about 100 meters and still it was only up to my knees. Whle sitting in the water some fish swam up to us. I think one fish liked Arleah. It kept swimming between us as to keep me away from her. hahaha.
On morning we woke up early and went for a walk. We first walked along the beach and took in the scenery. What a beautiful morning. I couldnt ask for more than to be with my gf walking in paradise. We then walked along a walkway and saw some of the shops and places to eat. So many came up to us and asked if we wanted to go island hopping. Maybe next trip or maybe we can go on a banana boat! There was even a child selling something that made us promise to come back later to buy it. hahaha
The greatest part was the amazing woman I was with. Let me tell y ou about her. We first met in February. She was really nice and we really got along great. When I came back to see her last month, I think our feelings exploded. Everything went perfect. I can honestly say that we fell deep in love. Before this trip I know we both cared for each other and were in love, but not like now. We are perfect for each other.
Is she pretty? Of course! Sexy? Of course! Is that wy I love her? NO! She is so sweet. Never afraid to show her love. Making me feel so important. Everything is just right when we are together. It isnt her words but her actions. Anyone can say anything but when you do things naturally and it makes the other feel special, that is what we all need.
I love you Arleah. You are what i need in my life. Thanks for being you and for letting me be me.
Ching ching taba taba ching ching.
Everything is your fault hon. It is your fault I am happy. It is your fault I am in love with you. It is your fault I cant get you out of my mind. It is your fault I want to live forever with you by my side.
We stayed in station 1. The beach was beautiful. The white sand and crystal clear water was breathtaking. The weather was perfect. It seems as if God wanted everything to be the way it should.
The hotel/resort was very nice. There was a great pool and it was also right on the beach. The room was spacious and clean. The name of the place is Las Brisas. I highly recommend it to anyone that is going to Boracay. The staff was nice and the breakfast was tasty. I think it helped that we were the only ones there for one night.
When we went to the beach the sand was beautiful. I have never been on a white sand beach before. The sand was cool even though it was quite warm out. The water was warm when we first went in. It was so clear too. We were able to go out about 100 meters and still it was only up to my knees. Whle sitting in the water some fish swam up to us. I think one fish liked Arleah. It kept swimming between us as to keep me away from her. hahaha.
On morning we woke up early and went for a walk. We first walked along the beach and took in the scenery. What a beautiful morning. I couldnt ask for more than to be with my gf walking in paradise. We then walked along a walkway and saw some of the shops and places to eat. So many came up to us and asked if we wanted to go island hopping. Maybe next trip or maybe we can go on a banana boat! There was even a child selling something that made us promise to come back later to buy it. hahaha
The greatest part was the amazing woman I was with. Let me tell y ou about her. We first met in February. She was really nice and we really got along great. When I came back to see her last month, I think our feelings exploded. Everything went perfect. I can honestly say that we fell deep in love. Before this trip I know we both cared for each other and were in love, but not like now. We are perfect for each other.
Is she pretty? Of course! Sexy? Of course! Is that wy I love her? NO! She is so sweet. Never afraid to show her love. Making me feel so important. Everything is just right when we are together. It isnt her words but her actions. Anyone can say anything but when you do things naturally and it makes the other feel special, that is what we all need.
I love you Arleah. You are what i need in my life. Thanks for being you and for letting me be me.
Ching ching taba taba ching ching.
Everything is your fault hon. It is your fault I am happy. It is your fault I am in love with you. It is your fault I cant get you out of my mind. It is your fault I want to live forever with you by my side.
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