Grow up and think!

Some people can be so selfish. They always think of themselves and not how they affect or are treated by others. They can have something as close to perfect as they can find yet still they can find something wrong.
Life is not perfect. Things will not always go the way we want them to. Sometimes we have to think before we complain. Just because something little goes wrong, that doesn't give you the right to complain about it. Put things into perspective. Think of what is bothering you. Is it worth complaining about? Is it realyl an issue? Do you do the same thing but don't realize it?
We tend to expect our partners to be perfect and mindreaders. Are we so perfect that we can demand that from our partner? I don't think so. wise up or you might lose the best thing in your life!
I said this to myself when I looked into the mirror today.

Sorry.

Saying what you mean

I was talking to an old friend the other day and she told me that she and her bf had broken up. I asked what happened and she told me they had an argument and at the end he asked her if she still wants to be his gf.
I asked what she said and this is what she said "I told him no thinking that he would try to convince me to stay with him."
WHAT???????????????? Was she CRAZY???? Why on earth would anyone do something so stupid? It's like that song by The 4 seasons "big girls don't cry". It backfired in the song and it backfired on her. Now she is in a mess because the guy she loves thinks she is just playing with him.
People should just say what they feel, not say things to get a reaction if they don't believe what they are saying. This would stop a lot of problems.

Bad Feelings II

Well, I knew it. Something bad has happened.
I really hate when this happens.

To my baby, I love you Arleah. I miss you so much hon.

Bad Feelings

Did you ever have one of those days when you just know you are going to hear bad news or something bad is going to happen? Today is one of those days. I don't know what causes it but it usually is justified. I hope it isn't too bad.

I don't know what is worse though, finally getting the bad news or the waiting beforehand.

Oh well, bring it on!!!!! Let's get this over with.

Better days are ahead.