Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Soul Mates

I always used to think that the term "Soul Mate" was being used by people that were just in love and feeling goofy. It's like calling someone "schnookums" or "babycakes" or any other term. I never thought there was really a soul mate. That was until February.
In February, I first met Arleah in person. We really hit it off. We had been chatting for a while and we became close and we seemed to get along fine after a period of just the opposite. Anyone can chat and get along with someone. That doesn't really show that you are compatible, it just shows that you can talk about things. When we met though, everything seemed to go great. We had good conversation and we really enjoyed each other's company. At that time, I thought there was a great chance that her and I would become a good couple with a really strong relationship.
Since then, we continued to chat and really got to know each other well. She got to know the real me and I got to know the real Arleah. Our feelings grew stronger every time we chatted. At first I was worried that it was only me that was feeling this way. I learned that it was mutual!
We were able to get together again in October. Well, it was just amazing. Everything we did just seemed like the right thing to do no matter what it was. We could have been eating, walking, swimming, talking, or even just sitting together and it seemed like there was nothing else I would rather be doing.
I was able to meet 2 aunts, 2 brothers, a sister-in-law, a nephew and 3 nieces. I never felt so comfortable meeting family before. Arleah didn't feel the need to watch over me as if to protect me from anything I might say wrong. She had a confidence about me that she was not afraid to let me be me in front of her family. I was also able to meet one of her friends for dinner. It was ease to talk to him since he talked British (hahaha).
All in all I had a wonderful visit spending time with her and meeting her friends and family. I hope next time I can meet more friends that I have heard of like Beng and Sara and some others she has mentioned. I also can't wait to meet her mother. She seems so nice on the phone and is really a pleasure to talk to.
Well, after this visit I really had to rethink my opinion of soul mates. I think I found mine.
I love you hon.

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Boracay

Last month I went to Boracay with my girlfriend Arleah. It was amazing.

We stayed in station 1. The beach was beautiful. The white sand and crystal clear water was breathtaking. The weather was perfect. It seems as if God wanted everything to be the way it should.

The hotel/resort was very nice. There was a great pool and it was also right on the beach. The room was spacious and clean. The name of the place is Las Brisas. I highly recommend it to anyone that is going to Boracay. The staff was nice and the breakfast was tasty. I think it helped that we were the only ones there for one night.

When we went to the beach the sand was beautiful. I have never been on a white sand beach before. The sand was cool even though it was quite warm out. The water was warm when we first went in. It was so clear too. We were able to go out about 100 meters and still it was only up to my knees. Whle sitting in the water some fish swam up to us. I think one fish liked Arleah. It kept swimming between us as to keep me away from her. hahaha.

On morning we woke up early and went for a walk. We first walked along the beach and took in the scenery. What a beautiful morning. I couldnt ask for more than to be with my gf walking in paradise. We then walked along a walkway and saw some of the shops and places to eat. So many came up to us and asked if we wanted to go island hopping. Maybe next trip or maybe we can go on a banana boat! There was even a child selling something that made us promise to come back later to buy it. hahaha

The greatest part was the amazing woman I was with. Let me tell y ou about her. We first met in February. She was really nice and we really got along great. When I came back to see her last month, I think our feelings exploded. Everything went perfect. I can honestly say that we fell deep in love. Before this trip I know we both cared for each other and were in love, but not like now. We are perfect for each other.

Is she pretty? Of course! Sexy? Of course! Is that wy I love her? NO! She is so sweet. Never afraid to show her love. Making me feel so important. Everything is just right when we are together. It isnt her words but her actions. Anyone can say anything but when you do things naturally and it makes the other feel special, that is what we all need.

I love you Arleah. You are what i need in my life. Thanks for being you and for letting me be me.

Ching ching taba taba ching ching.

Everything is your fault hon. It is your fault I am happy. It is your fault I am in love with you. It is your fault I cant get you out of my mind. It is your fault I want to live forever with you by my side.