Surprises

Well, today was one of those average days. I wasn't in a bad mood but I wasn't in a good one either. Not much was going on and not much was expected. That all changed in a heartbeat.

My girlfriend and I have been a couple for over a year now. Things are going great and I am really looking forward to a future with her in it. We really have a great time when we are together and everything seems so right. It feels like we were made for each other.

Well, my girlfriend loves to write and blog. I would read every blog and sometimes laugh at what she is writing about, like slippers! hahaha Earlier in our relationship I would always read her blogs hoping to see something about me. There never was. At first it did bother me and when I asked her about it, she had a good reason. I accepted that reason. I could understand why and it was quite legitimate. Sometimes we have to look at things from the other person's perspective to understand everything.

Here comes the surprise. Today in one of her blogs she wrote "And my lovelife, yes, it's amazing." WOW!!!!!! Can you imagine how I felt? Something about me???? Well, that just made today a GREAT day. Nothing ordinary about today. I'm floating on the clouds now.

It's amazing how just a few words can change a person. I've been recognized. I am somebody online now. I exist. What an amazing feeling.

Thanks baby, you just can't imagine how much this means to me.

MWAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good month

So far this has been a good month. There have been a few minor things but nothing to get worked up about. I had a good feeling going into the month that somehow it would be different. I have gotten good news in several different areas and it feels like there is more to come.
Things are changing for the better.

You

I miss you................................................

Dreams

I have always wanted to travel. There are so many different places to go and things to see. There can be adventures, sight seeing, eating different kinds of foods and even just laying on the beach. Here are my top 10 places I want to go:

1. Hong Kong. I love the pictures I have seen of HK. The lights at night give it that look of excitement and that there would always be something to do. I would also like to try authentic Chinese food and what better place is there? hahaha

2. African Safari. To see all those animals in their natural habitat would be amazing. I would have to bring my digicam and probably 10 memory cards!

3. Las Vegas. Well, just look at some of those hotels. Each one is like a country of it's own. You can get any type of food there also. It's never boring there!

4. Phukett, Thailand. I have heard so many things about this place. Here would be a place just to get away from everything and just relax.

5. Rome, Italy. Food! Food! and more Food! hahaha. I can also go to Vatican City. This would be a real treat for me.

6. Israel. Well, I would be afraid to go here due to the violence but I would also love to see the places from the Bible. I am not religious but I think it would be inspiring to go there.

7. El Salvador. Much like the African safari, this would be a jungle safari!

8. Australia. The outback, crocks, koalas and kangaroos. I'll have a few shrimp from the barbie!

9. Bangkok. I want to see the ancient ruins there. I love history and that would be just amazing to see.

10. Belize. Don't know if I spelled that right but I would love to see the Mayan ruins there.

There are so many more places. I know I can come up with over 100 if I wanted to. Now all I need is the money! hahaha

anyone care to join me??

A Change

I noticed that some of my blogs have been negative lately. Well, it's about time to change that.

I'm in a GREAT mood today. I'm in love and so happy with her. Work was easy today. Everything looks to be getting better. The future looks bright for a change!

Grow up and think!

Some people can be so selfish. They always think of themselves and not how they affect or are treated by others. They can have something as close to perfect as they can find yet still they can find something wrong.
Life is not perfect. Things will not always go the way we want them to. Sometimes we have to think before we complain. Just because something little goes wrong, that doesn't give you the right to complain about it. Put things into perspective. Think of what is bothering you. Is it worth complaining about? Is it realyl an issue? Do you do the same thing but don't realize it?
We tend to expect our partners to be perfect and mindreaders. Are we so perfect that we can demand that from our partner? I don't think so. wise up or you might lose the best thing in your life!
I said this to myself when I looked into the mirror today.

Sorry.

Saying what you mean

I was talking to an old friend the other day and she told me that she and her bf had broken up. I asked what happened and she told me they had an argument and at the end he asked her if she still wants to be his gf.
I asked what she said and this is what she said "I told him no thinking that he would try to convince me to stay with him."
WHAT???????????????? Was she CRAZY???? Why on earth would anyone do something so stupid? It's like that song by The 4 seasons "big girls don't cry". It backfired in the song and it backfired on her. Now she is in a mess because the guy she loves thinks she is just playing with him.
People should just say what they feel, not say things to get a reaction if they don't believe what they are saying. This would stop a lot of problems.